I don't know, maybe I'm the only one who has this problem, but whenever I meet a man who's wearing a hat or something on his head (bandanna, head wrap, etc) when I see him without it, I don't find him attractive. Like, I have to really work at finding him attractive bare headed. This happens to me all the time. Let me give you an example.
Second semester freshman year of college. I'm at a huge party at UMASS (I believe, I'm not quite sure now, lol) and there's this guy dancing his ass off. Hes not that tall, but taller than me. He was very dark skinned and was wearing jeans, a top and a blue bandanna on his head. My conniving friends got him to dance with me, and we spent the remainder of the night dancing away. His name was Ronald and he was a Sigma (hence the blue bandanna). We exchanged numbers and talked on the phone for a few weeks.
Ronald invited me and my friends to come stay with him for the weekend and attend one of his fraternity's dances. He had a car and drove from Hartford, Connecticut and picked us up at my house on campus. When the girl at the front desk called to say he arrived, my heart started beating fast and hard. I was so nervous! Was he going to look the same as he did the night we met? Was I still going to find him attractive?? did I overcommitt myself by saying Id stay with him an entire weekend?? I made my way downstairs to find my date playing our piano. He was still dark and short but that head...I hated the shape of his head!!
Moral of the story is...well there is no damned moral because I continued on with my weekend plans with Ronald and had a great time. The shape of his head grew on me. To this day, hes kind of one of the "ones who got away".
I'm sure you're all wondering, Lola, why are you thinking about this guy now? Well, lemme tell ya. I'm doing it again. I'm crushing on a dude who always, ALWAYS wears a hat. Like even at work. Its an all hat all the time situation. I have to remind myself about my bad luck with men and head coverings and steel myself for the fact that he probably looks like the Golem without a hat. Will I like him sans chapeau? I don't know, but I don't think Ill ever find out.